Friday, June 14, 2013

Believe it or not things men can and will do to win your heart over


   To attract women.

     Like Bibles.

     A Bible can be a great chic magnet. Makes even gangsters and car salesmen look safe. Friendly. Trustworthy. Especially if it has his own name engraved on it. Now, I'm not knocking car salesmen and guys who tote Bibles. Most of these guys are legit. But some are merely veneer. Stay clear. You've seen them-the fake Jakes and faux Pauls.

     That's why it's imperative that you not only take Daters Ed but cover yourself with wisdom and accountability. We all have blind spots when it comes to love. When I'm driving, I have to look over my shoulder before switching lanes. Without a rear-view mirror, I may crash and burn.

     So take things slow when you are getting to know a guy. And the same goes for you guys too. I mean, come on.

     Employers check references.

     Banks require collateral.

     Apartments demand a security deposit.

     But singles everywhere hop in a relationship and drive it faster than a Maserati, risking their most valuable possession-their heart. Too many singles assume that everything a potential love interest says is certified but everyone puts their best foot forward in the beginning of a relationship. That's why it is so important to complete an inspection. Evaluating character takes time but one thing is certain-the truth comes out eventually.
Just don't get in a hurry. Slow down. Look over your shoulder and proceed with caution.
 
     If you don't, your passion may go crashing.



 
Prayer: Lord, help me to be cautious when I'm considering new friendships or dating interests. Give me the wisdom to choose companions who love you and follow your ways. I pray that you will send people with whom I can be accountable and who will be direct enough to advise me of character issues that I am oblivious to. Please protect my heart from those who may take advantage of me and are not honest with their intentions. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

As I look at the calander and see that it's almost May - I reflect on all that I am; all that I've felt; all that I plan to do for those I have lost & those fighting for life at this moment.

The hardest and toughest thing to be in this life-is being YOU-being UNIQUE or simply being-SLOW TO SPEAK or just being; of which your mind and outside opinions of others are continually waring against; is to be your complete self. You cannot be yourself, if you don't know who you are. And you cannot know who you are, if you don't know where you come from. This is our only battle and quest in this life; to find out who we are and where we come from. Survival is just secondary. Go beyond your human knowledge of who you think you are; your life's journey starts from this point. Life is waiting for you to discover the realization of who you are. Start your journey, in search for the truth of you. Don't abandon the search, because the only truth that you need to discover, is the truth of you; that's what that empty void inside of all of us is about. Don't abandon the search of discovering the truth about you. There will be many truths along your path; but there is only one. Don't settle for any other truths until your void is filled. Smile -- It makes a world of difference. Dance -- Who knows when you wont be able to. Cry -- Holding those emotions in is bad for you. Kiss -- Kisses are the most wonderful things in the world. Laugh -- Whats the point in hiding happiness? Frown -- Why not let him know you're unhappy? Apologize -- You don't wanna lose friends. Hug -- There's no better feeling being wrapped up close to someone you love. Live -- because life is everything. - i Found it...Sometimes, in order to become emotionally and mentally strong, you have to be broken down to your weakest point in order to build yourself back up. Not only broken down, but ripped to pieces in order to realize that life is not that fairytale that you grew up wishing upon! Tomorrow is a blank page, just waiting to be filled with your dreams... All you have to do is be yourself and live the story of your own unique life. Be proud. Be confident. And most of all be happy.. My words may not impress you but my actions will.
You've gotta wake up every morning and ask yourself, 'How bad do I want it?' How much work are you willing to put forth for the things and people you want and need in your life? Nothing great comes without effort. But I promise you that if it's something of great meaning in your heart and something you need in your life...EVERY risk, EVERY step and EVERY drop of sweat will be worth it.
Never let your head hang down. Never give up and sit down and grieve. Find another way. And don't pray when it rains if you don't pray when the sun shines.
"When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive - to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love."As we have woke up to another day God has blessed us with; I wait to find out if a loved one will as well. Truly from the Heart-Ms. Toni - Marsalia

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Know your Circle!

We can definitely inspire a lot of people to experience the precious positive side of life. Some people all across the world are in desperate search of what direction to take in life; The people that you look up to can either make you or break you in the future

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Director's email to me on her submission for publication after our interview:

Ms. Toni- Marsalia- is one of my favorite models to collaborate with because she works to create beautiful work. Recognized by her friends for her sense of style, Ms. Toni Models, Collaborates, Mentors, Studied with, Trained with, along side some amazing people in the Entertainment Industry. 
She has this year alone; been asked to write scripts for huge household names; styled Models for Photographers, been apart of, in, and coordinated Music Videos, she currently is working on her BIO, helping a few others with their BIO's, still edits Resumes from her HR background, holds Business Meetings, Coordinates, Promotes, and simply with her writing with music videos and movies such as "short film a shadow by the lake" which went full feature; she is a force to reckoned with and I would keep my eye on her for upcoming "THINGS TO COME" 
She personally is helping a young man at the age of 20 get his clothing line out and a women with her jewelry line getting noticed. When asked why? She simply said: "I would have loved to have one person step in and help me as a teen and all I want in return is a simple THANK YOU one day." Now this is a women after my own heart.
Director: Lynn 

How long have you been modeling?
The first time was my early tween years. I made looks, faces & gave them beautiful eyes, it was known that one day I would and could be an amazing writer; however needless to the concept that LEOS are all vein or into themselves, I truly am shy when it comes to "ME". Most people don't realize that beauty is very diverse and comes in all forms. Even the form that I hold.
How did you begin and what are your goals as a model?
I wish it was as easy to become a Model as I see it being these days; my parents didn't have much money so I actually started and had to put my dreams on hold many times through out the years. My goals as a model are to create beautiful work with whomever I am working with. I'm not trying to heavily pursue a career in modeling; I honestly have more of a passion for writing; helping create beautiful art and have been styling many models, photo-shoots and workshops.           
Describe your style.
I believe my style is very diverse. My closet is a dress up closet. Each day I decide what kind I look I want to go for, either it be business casual-professional or my favorites hippie as my Son would say or grunge, preppy, etc.

What was your opinion of modeling before and is it different now? if so, how?
Before I started to model it didn't seem like it was “The practice of airbrushing models, whether to make them look bigger and bustier or smaller and thinner, reflects poorly on the fashion industry. These techniques are all about creating an illusion and distorting reality,” I believe “It sets a bad example for women watching these celebrities because now they are vulnerable to comparing themselves to highly manipulated photo art, not a real photo of a real person. Though the photos aren’t real, they have a real and tangible negative effect on women who, bombarded by these images, are led to feel they aren’t meeting up to the standards of beauty. ”I find that creating art with the human form is beautiful. Why be ashamed of your own anatomy? I think the human structure is beautiful and should be celebrated; however you'll find that the biggest critics are your own family and so-called friends.


Where do you like to shop and who are your favorite designers?
My favorite designers carry Vintage. Most of the clothes that I have consist of it! It's really expensive to buy at full price- so I find deals or go to thrift shops and to be honest I can spend hours in the thrift stores.
If you could model for any designer, who would it be?
I don't really have a favorite designer. I'm not Ito following the top trends and serif what's "hot" next. If I see something that resonates with my spirit or simply is colorful and that I feel will brighten my day, I get that excited happy feeling.
What is your dream now that you've got this far?
“I don’t want to be a supermodel; I want to be a role model.” “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Don’t let the burden of your negative thoughts hold you down in life; rather transform your thoughts into positivity, so that they can be the wheels that drive you safely to the finish line of your dream.

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Photographer by Heart

I enjoy being behind the camera more then being in front of it. I truly should have made this my number one career goal! I love this picture

Sunday, March 31, 2013

I want to remind you that God didn't bring you this far just to drop you off! Stay positive! I thank God for my amazing family & friends & the opportunities that come my way! Life is such a blessing!! Each day remember this & smile!!


Good night loves, I pray for you all; to dream the night away, of better 2morrows in God's Name I pray; see you in the morning to start a new day! Good Night

Don't live life in fear, Forgive and forget, But don't forget why your here, Take your time and pray and Thank God for each day!!

Have you ever just wanted to run up to a stranger and say "your it" and run away? i have!

Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Luke 6:37

Had a MARVELOUS day and it's all because I LET GOD lead the way...

Good afternoon! may the sun shine warmly upon your face, the gentle breeze blow away your troubles, and may you find laughter in at least one small thing today!!

"There are 3 types of people in the world, those that make things happen, those that watch things happen, and those that wonder what the hell happened!"

Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.

I am proud to be a Christian saved by grace.

I LOVE the fact that God has a perfect plan for my life...I am so excited to see where my new paths will lead me...

If you want to be happy, set a goal that commands your thoughts, liberates your energy, and inspires your hopes

I love Audio Books! They have been my Best friend through this hard weekend. I have to admit though-I still love being able to hold a book and read it from the pages. I really want to try a kindle or something similar.

The keys to patience are acceptance and faith. Accept things as they are, and look realistically at the world around you. Have faith in yourself and in the direction you have chosen.

Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God

Only God is love, sometimes I think he breaks our heart only to fill it with his perfect love. only Jesus is faithful, his love never fails. Trust only God provides all our hearts desires

I have to say: I have the BEST GIRL cousins ever! I LOVE YOU GIRLS! "Cousins are those childhood playmates who grow up to be forever friends."
Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world. >M

When you look at me, you only see what I appear to be. There is much more to me underneath. Only those with the purest of hearts will see the true me.

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

If your actions inspire others to dream more,learn more, do more and become more,you are a leader.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Beautiful Quotes 60 to be exact~

1)“Stay” is a charming word in a friend’s vocabulary. Louisa May Alcott


2)If you can find it in your heart to care for somebody else, you will have succeeded. Maya Angelou

3) Nobody minds having what is too good for them. Jane Austen

4)When an opinion is general, it is usually correct. Jane Austen

5)Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up. James Baldwin

6)Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced. James Baldwin

7)It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend. William Blake

8)Men judge us by the success of our efforts. God looks at the efforts themselves. Charlotte Bronte

9)Look twice before you leap. Charlotte Bronte

10)If I could I would always work in silence and obscurity, and let my efforts be known by their results. Emily Bronte

11)Reading is important—read between the lines. Don’t swallow everything. Gwendolyn Brooks

12)Books succeed, and lives fail. Elizabeth Barrett Browning

13)A woman’s always younger than a man of equal years. Elizabeth Barrett Browning

14)Where there is great love, there are always wishes. Willa Cather

15)Give people a new word and they think they have a new fact. Willa Cather

16)Advice is like snow—the softer it falls, the longer it dwells upon, and the deeper it sinks

into the mind. Samuel Taylor Coleridge

17)A word is dead when it is said, some say, I say it just begins to live that day. Emily Dickinson

18)Without a struggle, there can be no progress. Frederick Douglass

19)A little learning, indeed, may be a dangerous thing, but the want of learning is a calamity to any people. Frederick Douglas

20)Oh, how with more than dreams the soul is torn, ere sleep comes down to soothe the weary eyes. Paul Lawrence Dunbar

21)Anger and jealousy can no more bear to lose sight of their objects than love. George Eliot

22)It is never too late to be what you might have been. George Eliot

23)The ancestor of every action is a thought .Ralph Waldo Emerson

24)Books are for nothing but to inspire. Ralph Waldo Emerson

25)This is the way the world ends; not with a bang, but a whimper. T. S. Eliot

26)The end of wisdom is to dream high enough to lose the dream in the seeking of it.William Faulkner

27)I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people never listen.Earnest Hemingway

28)In three words I can sum up everything I have learned about life: it goes on. Robert Frost

29)Never be afraid to sit a while and think. Lorraine Hansberry

30)The thing that makes you exceptional, if you are at all, is inevitably that which must also make you lonely. Lorraine Hansberry

31)I love sleep. My life has a tendency to fall apart when I am awake, you know? Ernest Hemingway

32)Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken winged bird that cannot fly. Langston Hughes

33)It is from the blues that all that may be called American music derives its most distinctive characteristics. James Weldon Johnson

34)Get busy living, or get busy dying. Stephen King

35)Borrow trouble for yourself, if that’s your nature, but don’t lend it to your neighbors’ .Rudyard Kipling

36)The one thing that does not abide by majority rule is a person’s conscience. Harper Lee

37)Until I feared I would lose it, I never loved to read. One does not love breathing. Harper Lee

38)The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time. Jack London

39)For whatever is truly wondrous and fearful in man, never yet was put into words or books. Herman Melville

40)What difference does it make if the thing you are scared of is real or not? Toni Morrison

Who controls the past controls the future. Who controls the present controls the past. George Orwell

41)Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. George Orwell

42)I have great faith in fools. My friends call it self-confidence. Edgar Allen Poe

43)A fool thinks himself wise, but a wise man knows himself to be a fool. William Shakespeare

44)This above all: to thine own self be true William Shakespeare

45)It is not in the stars to hold our destiny, but in ourselves. William Shakespeare

46)No one wants advice—only corroboration. John Steinbeck

47)Ours is not to reason why, ours is but to do or die. Alfred Lord Tennyson

48)Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Alfred Lord Tennyson

49)Somebody’s boring me. I think it’s me. Dylan Thomas

50)Goodness is the only investment that never fails. Henry David Thoreau

51)Books are thee treasured wealth of the world and the fit inheritance of generations and nations. Henry David Thoreau

53)It is better to deserve honors and not have them than to have them and not deserve them.

Mark Twain

54)If we’d stop trying to be happy we could have a pretty good time. Edith Wharton

55)I have learned that to be with those I like is enough. Walt Whitman

56)Experience is one thing that you can’t get for nothing. Oscar Wilde

57)No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow. Alice Walker

58)Being happy is not the only happiness. Alice Walker

59)A sure way for one to lift himself up is by helping lift someone else. Booker T. Washington

60)The impulse to dream was slowly beaten out of me by experience. Now it surged up again and I hungered for books, new ways of looking and seeing. Richard Wright