Simple words so hard for you to say

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3vkoSQWtV4

 

You have come into my life through a door I was afraid would never be opened again, for many have slammed it on their way out. So please feel free to stay as long as you’d like. But should the time come that you must leave - please, close the door gently as you go.


Actually, I’m a little scared to get close to anyone because everyone that said “I’ll be there”… left.

“The more we start liking somebody, the more we fear losing them. It’s a human tendency because we can’t afford to lose a person chosen among millions.”

 Read this before and I've loved it each time! If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can’t "be friends."
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think "it will get better." You’ll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone ELSE'S man.
Oh Lord!  If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.
All men are not dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...There is nothing cute about

baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to complete you. A relationship consists
of two whole individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.

Dating is fun; even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always know where you are, and you’re
always readily available to him—he takes it for granted.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other ladies.
You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them, and an entire lifetime to forget them.

"Unknown" However VERY TRUE!!!

The male species

You tell a woman you are truly ready for commitment, pursue her … and then freak out. OR you have past entanglements (like that darn ex), which are really holding you back from being available for a relationship. Women would appreciate it so much more if men could be genuine with themselves and their partners about exactly what they want. ((We don’t want to get invested in you if you aren’t worth the time.))

Momma's Boy

We are happy that you have a great relationship with your mother, but we don’t want to date your mother! Meddling mama’s can be a huge problem in a relationship, and even a deal breaker for many. Guys, it is important to set boundaries with your family and don’t let mom interfere in your life. It’s also important that you strive for balance in your romantic relationships, because women, as a rule, don’t want to play mama. Childish does not equal attractive.

Men are lonesome creatures: Something I was reading about in Class... interesting:

Something I was reading about in Class... interesting:
Men are lonesome creatures, they are taught to deal with their problems on their own. Their instinct in difficult times is to get away from everything to get a clearer view... Women often misinterpret that and try to hold them back... by playing the guilt game, the blame game....
Nothing is more aggressive then a man who feels trapped... hence they can get very, very mean in this situation. Just trust a man with his freedom.
Men by and large are not always mean. So the better question is "when do men act meanly, and further, how does their meanness differ from that of a woman". Women are mean, but they are more elusive about it. They tend to be passive aggressive and feel the social pressure to maintain a nice exterior. Men are often praised for being mean. In the work place they could be revered for their ability to dominate other men who follow their lead, even if it's achieved by ole Machiavellian bullying (Same school of thought which declares 'I rather be feared than loved'). Women risk being chastised as unfeminine for similar behavior. Men are mean to women when they have been traumatized in their childhoods by abusive or neglectful parents, often by their mothers. In the relationship/dating world, men who are 'mean' typically have 'mommy issues'. They act out aggressively towards women in a post-adolescent rebellion against the ill will done to them in childhood. Meanness in any person stems from hate and anger, and these men deep down hate women. Healthy men are capable of positive human emotions such as empathy, remorse, and love. But there are men (as well as women) who lack these natural abilities, the proper psychological term for this disorder is 'sociopath'. These are often exceptional charmers, so their meanness isn't readily observed. Sociopath men need willing victims around them to emotionally abuse. Acts of meanness can include infidelity, guilt trips, lack of concern, lying, and extreme egotism. Because of a sociopath's deep seeded anger, their meanness is often the most damaging and pretty much untreatable. Womanizers for instance are sociopaths. But for your average mentally stable American Joe, when he gets cranky he just needs a good cup of coffee and a massage to relax and be nice like the rest of us.