Showing posts with label Courting a women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Courting a women. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

You don't need anyone who doesn't need you!

I don’t know why we all hang on to something we know were better letting go. It’s like were scared to lose what we don’t even really have. Some of us say we’d rather have that something than absolutely nothing, but the truth is, to have it halfway is harder than not having it at all.
You know what your problem is? You get attached, fast. And once you’re attached to someone, you do everything you can to please them and make them happy. It’s never been about what you want; it’s always everyone’s needs before your own. You give out too many chances to people, who quite frankly, do not deserve them. They take advantage of you, and you become a pushover. But you’re okay with that, because they’re in your life and that’s all you ever really wanted. And even if they screw you over, you’ll still be there for him. Because that’s you, that’s who you are. Once you get attached to someone, they capture your heart and they always have a place there. And that is why it’s so hard for you to let go.
I get the whole “He’s the only guy I’ve ever really been in love with” part. It’s hard to let go, hard to move on to someone else and think you’ll never find anyone with such characteristics or chemistry like you two had, but I promise you, once you let go and move on, you’ll find out that, deep down, the only feelings you have for him might be just the fact that you’ll always love him. You may not want him back, you might just be scared to move on without him.Nobody wants to hear this but sometimes the person you want the most, is the person you are best without.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

I was not born to insist myself to someone who doesn’t want me…i give LOVE, yes i do in fact i easily fall for someone who makes me feel SPECIAL..but when i sense that the person is starting to get rid of me?i WON’T WASTE my time..i WON’T WAIT for him to neglect my presence..“LOVE don’t fade easily, but i can contradict my feelings just to make sure i won’t look STUPID”   

If someone acts like they don’t care about you it’s because they don’t care about you. Don’t waste your time making excuses for them. Just move on.

Monday, December 19, 2011

Why Women CRY

Why Women Cry! Awwwhhhh Share away....

by Marsalia AkaToni on Thursday, November 3, 2011 at 11:28pm
A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him.
"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said, "When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world,

yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfaltering.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Courting, Daiting, Mating (What is Courting a Women)

•Dating is the process of two people joining in activities in order to get to know each other better and to get closer physically and emotionally.

•Courting is frequent dating by the man to persuade the woman to be his mate. (Both are on their best behavior during this time and there is no guarantee that "what you see is what you get later!")

•Mating is the mutually agreeable act of a male and female becoming mates. Mating may be just a way of having some fun or surviving better. This arrangement is also often called a "relationship". Relationships often involve having sex for pleasure and bonding, but not to produce offspring.

Now days most men do not court a women.

Courting a women definition:

Courting by definition is obvious. When courting a woman, she is supposed to know that you are courting her, and either tell you she is interested or tell you she is not. It is supposed to be done with her permission.

You're either courting a woman or you're not, so being obvious about it doesn't come into the equation.

Invite her to dinners, picnics, drives together and take each date as it comes. Ask permission before holding her hand, or kissing or whatever.

Watch a couple of old romance movies and get some pointers from them about "courting".

As young as I am I still have the idea of the OLD ROMANCES.. it's all the Cinderella types of movies and at the same time the old soul that I have been born with. I just love the old days and all the romance.

I feel a man should shower you with Flowers (yes they die) but the memory will last forever. Memories are a lifetime. Women no matter what they say love to be romanced! It's a important part of life. It will keep your relationship if it will turn into one going really well.

You need to show your love. If your already in a relationship you could even go with beautiful plants they last longer then flowers and if she will remember the gesture forever.

The most important thing is to listen; if you listen you will hear what she loves likes and enjoys, spice it up go on a road trip - you can tell a lot about a person on a road trip. Concerts, bands, walks, shooting range, fishing, aw there are so many things you can do together.

Hope this is informational :)